28 August, 2021

Live2Cherish...

     Sometimes i get asked why i use the phrase Live2cherish. It was a phrase that i adopted in my teens. This phrase resonated with the rush of newly discovered adrenaline during my teenage. It was one of those organic things that happen to you, and you know its meant for you. It feels a part of you than a distant thing or person, which you need to make an effort to develop, or sustain that relation. And so it happened. 

Over the time, I have developed certain relations in my life which felt organic at the moment. I have lived through some great memories of laughter, love, empathy, sorrow, and success. I am grateful for those experiences, and relations. However, a few relations seem to drag me rather than develop myself. And so, I have chosen to let go those relations that I do not cherish today. 

16 July, 2021

Kind

If there is one thing that unites us that would be kindness.

Kind  enough to accept each other,

to love each other,

to forgive each other,

to develop each other,

to empower each other.

Let's be kind enough to say hello, 

to smile, 

to say sorry. 

Because all of us need a little kindness to survive.


09 February, 2021

Mulakat


શું તને યાદ છે?
એક સમય હતો જયારે આપણે મળતા હતાં?
તુ નજરે ચઢતાં,
મારા હોઠો ના કિનારે સંતાયેલુ સ્મિત વિખરાઈ જતુ.
હાં એજ ટૂંક સમય માં થતી આપણી લાંબી મુલાકાત મને સારે છે .
મને લાગે છે મારી લાગણી હજી સ્માર્ટ નથી થઈ.

શું તને યાદ છે?
આપણી પિલ્લૉ ટૉક વાલી મુલાકાત,
વિકેન્ડ વાલી મુલાકાત,
એરપોર્ટ વાલી મુલાકાત,
હાં એજ ટૂંક સમય માં થતી આપણી લાંબી મુલાકાત મને સારે છે.

શું તને યાદ છે?
એક સમય હતો જયારે આપણે મળતા હતાં?
પરોઢે ઘડિયાળ ના રણકાર થી ઉઠી જઈ
તને સપનાં માં થી હકીકત માં મળવાની તાલાવેલી.
હાં એજ ટૂંક સમય માં થતી આપણી લાંબી મુલાકાત મને સારે છે.
આજની  ફેસટાઈમ વાલી મુલાકાત લાંબી છતાં ફીકી લાગે છે.
શું કરુ, મારી લાગણી હજી સ્માર્ટ નથી થઈ.

શું તને યાદ છે?
એક સમય હતો જયારે આપણે મળતા હતાં?
સાંજે ઘર આગણે તારી ગાડી નો અવાજ સાંભળતા
નાસી ને મળવા આવતી હતી એ ટૂંકી મુલાકાત
આજે એલેક્સા રણકાર કરી કહીં દે છે કે તું આવી ગયો છું,
ત્યારે  લાગે છે કે આપડી મુલાકાત થતાં થતાં રહી ગઈ.

25 May, 2020

Where have I been..

Hello! Long time no see 👀.
Its been a while, I have been here.
Probably, you did not notice that I was gone.

If you are reading this, Congratulations 🎉you made it through Co-Vid phase.
I know, it is not a milestone or bucket list item, like Y2K of 2000 or lunar eclipse of 2017. But, it is no less. I am so glad that you are still alive and kicking.

Speaking of milestones 🙌, it has been a decade since this blog was created.
I was introduced to blogspot as my undergrad assignment, and I started using it as my notepad to jot and save my thoughts. I usually make a point to write around my Birthday, so here I am today.

My husband recently brought to my attention that I haven't written in a long time and I wondered, what do i write about? I no longer get to witness the spectacular sunsets of the south. Nor am I am in half hearty relationships. Writing about Travel: "Where have I been all these days" fits the scope and purpose perfectly. So, come with me.

Who: I have been transitioning as stranger in San Jose city and as a married woman in life. As a matter of fact, I celebrated my 3rd wedding anniversary this week. I know right!

Where:
The term 'Sunny California" is hoax, if I may say. You have to live here to realize what this phrase means to you. Pacific ocean is always cold (even in summers)- say bye-bye to swimming at the beach 🏊.  I have much more respect for people who have to commute to work in their personal vehicles or public transit since 2018. Never in my life did I wish for Uber Air or private jet for commute, so badly.
 When: While I am not commuting to work in "Sunny California", I have been able to go places within United States, Mexico, Australia, and New Zealand.

 


What:Among the cities that I have visited, I absolutely loved the vibe of Vancouver and Sydney. I can choose these cities in a heart beat to revisit or relocate. Vancouver is very active, eclectic and young. Sydney is technology naive, homey, and equally vibrant.

By far the most Scenic and adrenaline pumping trip was South Island of New Zealand . Deep turquoise Lakes, vibrant wildflowers, Mountains, Never ending roads, Roasted Coffee, and Yummiest Indian food-all checked off. While I knew I would be surrounded by more sheep than humans in NZ, I also checked off seeing lifetime worth of deers. I survived 400m Bungee Jump and  River rafting over a 7m waterfall- crazy huh!

Speaking of crazy, I skied for the first time in Aspen, Co and terribly failed the lesson of applying brakes. Not once, twice, or thrice but the entire day😭. The snow clad mountains of Aspen, CO will leave you speechless either from beauty, freezing cold or bruised limbs☺.

How: I barely collect things or souvenirs per say.
I do bring some new personal traits, interests or perspective after my trips.
For example, I learned how to survive on crappy all-inclusive resort food in Cabo, Mexico. I learnt that my convent school English education cannot be counted as survival language skill and soft skills do matter.
I reached new heights of self perseverance while hiking in Sedona, AZ.
New Zealand taught me to remain minimalistic, eccentric, and play hard.
Sydney taught me to be comfortable being carefree, work free and not stressing about adapting to every piece of technology at my fingertips.

Until we meet again, stay Safe and Sane.

03 April, 2019

Kal Ho Na Ho


It is hard to say, if the Tulips in her garden are blushing more red or her cheeks,
when she hears Alexa sing by her window sill "Har ghadi badal rahi, hain roop zindagi,
Chaav hai kahhi hai dhoop zidnagi"
She hysterically bursts out reminiscing the coincidence of this song while prepping her Quinoa salad.
She reminisces on this line of the song: how she confidently jumbled the words with no qualms of authenticity.
That memory is retro as her red toaster-oven but the heated arguments over the lyrics of song and heartiness of Quinoa salad still lingers.

Palko ko leke saya
 pass  koi jo aaye.
Lakh sambhalo, 
pagal Dil ko
Dil dhadke hi jaye.

A song once cherished for no rhyme or reason,
Now rhymes a reason to revisit some untold tales of her life...

Par sochlo is pal hai jo
Woh dastan kal ho na ho
Har pal yahan jee bhar jiyo
Jo hai sama kal ho na ho
Har pal yahan jee bhar jiyo






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