31 August, 2015

" Waah Waah Manji, Jodi Kya Banayi"

Have you ever held a delicate thing in your hands?
So delicate that you think its hard to replace or break.
Have you ever felt desperate for someone?
So desperate that you do not want to loose sight of that person.
Have you ever longed for someone?
Longed so much that you can't avoid touching them when you finally meet.

Have you ever sighed with satisfaction on someone's arrival?
So satisfied that you start blushing.

That's how intense i feel the vibe around me as i sit on my flight,
and  painstakingly i admire the charisma of this mesmerizing couple.

Waah waah Man-ji, jodi kya banaayi
Cellphone bhaiya aur Wifi bhabhi ko badhaai ho badhaai
Sab rasmon se badi hai jag mein network se network ki sagaai!

NB: Happy E-Rakhi ;)

17 August, 2015

Smarthphone- What an Idea Sirji!

આજે દર ખીસે એક સ્માંર્ટ ફોન રણકે છે
પણ મનની રીગ્ટોન ધીરે ધીરે સાયલેન્ટ થતી જાય  છે.
હજી કાલની તો વાત હતી ,
કે સુખ-દુઃખ પ્રસંગે પરસ્પર મળીને , બે શબ્દો ની આપ લે કરી મન હળવું કરતા હતા.
આજે ઇન્સ્ટન્ટ message સાથે ભાવનાઓ પણ ઇન્સ્ટન્ટલી હળવી થતી જાય છે.
કહેવા માટે સ્માંર્ટ ફોન માનસ ને સમજણો /સ્માર્ટ કરવા બનાવ્યો હતો,
હા ! પણ સામાજીક સમજણ/સ્માર્ટનેસ આવે આવી એપ્પ હજી એપ્પ-સ્ટોર માં મલતી નથી થઇ.
કદાચ, એટલેજ આજની આ સ્માર્ટ PDA પબ્લીક ફટાક દઈને મેસેજ કરી શકે છે
પણ ફ્રી કોલિંગ હોવા છતાં અગતયના પ્રસંગે સામે વાડી વ્યક્તિને બે ઘડી ફોન ઉપર
શુભેચ્છા નથી પાઠવી શકતી.
"I feel comfortable over text /email, can't express on call" કહી છટકી જાય  છે.
શું આપણે એટલાં લાચાર થઇ ગયા છે કે તદ્દન સામાજીક સમજણ ખોવી બેઠયાં  છે ?
પોતાના સંબધી ના અગત્યના પ્રસંગો યાદ રાખવા જો facebook રીમાઈન્ડર  ની જરૂર પડવા માંડે તો લાનત છે આ લાચારી પર ,
પછી તમારા ને પારકા 100 facebook ફ્રેન્ડ્સ   માં ફરક શું રહ્યો ?
                                                                         -વિચારજો જરા.

 


04 August, 2015

Hello!

A lonely playmate 
 missing playful ring holds once 
 again the old  phone
Hello........ I said with a little hesitance in my voice.
Maamaa! Look, i am here ! came the words as i cleared my throat.

Maamaa: Where are you hiding? 
Maamaa,  oh please! come na, 
Come, trick me to pick the fake phone call,
So, when I say "Hello" with all my innocence. 
you lovingly hug me saying "peek a boo"!

છે ખેલ આ જૂનો,
 ફોન ઉપાડવાનો! 
 સમયે ખેલ્યો એવો 
 કે  દિઠું તમને 
આ ફોન ની ઘંતીડ્યો  માં!!

Do You realize, You took a part of me away with You?
For who else would understand:
The reason, i hold this phone today,
is nothing but my fruitless effort to get a glimpse of You......




NB:મામા એટલે બે માં ની મમતા પૂરી કરનાર 

27 July, 2015

Shit Just got Real

I had so wished that I should have a family member in states with me. My brother got admitted to a prestigious school and is two weeks apart from landing in states. Thats when you exclaim.
Shit Just got Real!

Last week, I had tremendous feedback for my instagram posts from a known iron chef and few other friends, whom i was not aware, were really interested in my affairs. And so, I exclaim.
                                                                                                                                Shit Just got Real!


A good friend and I were discussing about happenings of our lives and discovered we were on verge of loosing our independence/freedom lifestyle pretty soon.  We had been planning and wanting this change but suddenly making room for a new person (spouse in his case and parent in my case) made us exclaim in unison. 
Shit Just got Real!


14 July, 2015

How to take endless Vacations

Recently, my colleague commented on my endless vacation trips:
"People take off from work and go for vacations,
You take off from vacations and come to work".


Normally, I manage 3 trips a year. This year,  I am blessed to have time and energy to experience some of the most exciting times of my life.

But, since i have been asked by so many, as to how i manage to take vacations, here is my deal.

My simple rule is "priority". You know your needs and responsibilities.

If you are like an average full time employee with benefits covered, you would get 2-3 weeks paid time off a year.  Which trust me is hell lot of time on free paycheck.

Most of my friends who are foreign exports, struggle between taking vacation and going home. For these folks, i would suggest, either make your home trips alternating year or shorten the stay. I have traveled home for 1 week, 2 weeks and managed to save 1week for local trips. I have a friend who visits home every year for three weeks, works overtime for one week and gets two week paid time off. -So its about your priority.

Other, thing i see with my friends is getting stuck at long weekends for vacations. This is a huge deal in terms of budget, travel time and freedom for leisure time amidst the crowd. If you would like to take advantage of these weekends, find places where you can connect with family or friends (that would help you save/share budget for food/board)

So, assuming you are not traveling home, which gives you 3weeks.
 Let's set 1week  for social events, or planned/unplanned events etc...
Now,  you are left with 2weeks, which is 14 days.
I have 12 months on my calendar, so even if i spare one day each month for a vacation, i would still be left with 2 extra days. There, i said it!
You can vacation every single month. Pick a monday or friday and you got a long weekend every month for a year!!! 

Another thing, use your sick leaves. Most work places would not warrant for a doctor's note if you take one or two days at a stretch.  You need to recondition your mind and body even if it is not sick.

Vacations need not be just to destinations, you could very well vacation at home. Gift yourself "Me time", "family time",  a body massage or spa day in local resort. Camp in your backyard, party at pool, there are endless options to pamper yourselves.

Now, comes budget.
If exploring places is your priority like mine, you should start pitching $ for your explorations.
We save or devote part of our income on mortgage/rent, car insurance, health insurance, gym every month. So, i have made a travel donation every paycheck or every three paychecks for my upcoming trips. This keeps me motivated and on track of my finances.

Use your credit card benefits(American express covers rental car insurance), enroll in flight mileage programs, wholesale retails memberships (Sam's, Bj's, Costco)- to your advantage.
I strongly recommend using these travel apps : Google flights, Kayak, Airfarewatchdog, Hoteltonight, Wunderlist, Instagram.


Life is short but enough if lived right and cherished.
That's how i do it!
So, when do you start?

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